Throughout my life I’ve garnered my share of art and design awards. Beginning in second grade elementary, continuing through middle school, high school, and college. This trend spiked during my professional career. However, the two Humanitarian Awards I received at Skyland Trail are the two closest to my heart. That’s where I began shifting toward supporting and boosting the light of others. The narcissist within that ruled over me began breaking down.
This isn’t a boast, it’s a reflection of the moment my narcissistic tendencies began to dissolve. Growing up I had no idea what skills like active listening were. I got roasted in 1996 when I had my first review with my boss. That was just the beginning of dismantling my self-centered nature. Little did I realize how envious I was of those around me who showed compassion for others.
“The shadow of an empath is born from endless giving. Once unleashed, it has the fire that cannot be tamed.”